A 19 Cent Raise in 45 Years? Women Deserve Equal Pay Now.
Published April 28, 2009 @ 07:27AM PT
Today, April 28, is Equal Pay Day, which symbolizes the day in 2009 when the average woman's wage will catch up with those paid to the average man in 2008. In case you didn't already realize, in the United States, women are paid only 78¢ on average for every dollar paid to men.
The National Women's Law Center reports how when President Kennedy signed the Equal Pay Act into law, it made it illegal for employers to pay unequal wages to men and women who perform equal work. The following year, Title VII of the Civil Rights Act of 1964 was enacted, making it illegal to discriminate, including in compensation, on the basis of sex, race, color, religion, and national origin. At the time of the Equal Pay Act's passage in 1963, women were paid merely 59 cents to every dollar earned by men.
Hmm - so in 45 years, women's wages compared to men's have only increased by 19 cents? Clearly, even with the enforcement of the Equal Pay Act and Title VII which have narrowed the wage gap, significant disparities still remain and must be addressed.
I live in Washington, DC, which actually has the highest women's earning ratio of 93%. But not every state has made that commitment. For example, in 2007, on average, women in Wyoming working full-time, year-round earned only 63% of what men working full-time, year-round earned -- fifteen percentage points below the nationwide average of 78%.
Many try to argue that the remaining wage gap between women and men is not significant. But clearly that is not true. As National Women's Law Center reports:
Women are far more likely to live in poverty than men. Women working full-time, year-round are paid only about 78 cents for every dollar earned by men. African-American women earn 69 cents and Latinas earn 59 cents for every dollar paid to men. This wage gap cannot be dismissed as the result of "women's choices" in career and family matters. In fact, authoritative studies show that even when all relevant career and family attributes are taken into account, there is still a significant, unexplained gap in men's and women's earnings. Thus, even when women make the same career choices as men and work the same hours, they still earn less.
Today activists are calling on the Senate to pass the Paycheck Fairness Act, which aims to strengthen current laws against wage discrimination and provides tools to enable the federal government to be more proactive in the fight. The bill has already passed the House, but make sure to do your part and demand equal pay from your Senators as well.
It's time to demand equal pay for equal work once and for all. We still have 22 cents to go.
Sign the petition to pass the Paycheck Fairness Act and spread the word on Facebook, on Twitter and YouTube. If you're posting to Twitter, please use the #fairpay hashtag.
Here are some sample tweets from the NWLC - feel free to copy them or to use them for inspiration:
- Today, Equal Pay Day, marks the point in 2009 when the avg woman's wages finally catch up with those paid 2 the avg man in 2008 #fairpay
- It takes women in the U.S. almost 16 months to be paid as much as men were paid in a year. http://bit.ly/KvkVH #fairpay
- Women in the U.S. are still paid only 78¢ for every dollar paid to men. http://bit.ly/KvkVH #fairpay
- Urge your Senators to vote YES on the Paycheck Fairness Act: http://bit.ly/yuQNU #fairpay
- See what the wage gap is for women in your state: http://bit.ly/JWYEv #fairpay
And here are some resources you can check out for more information:
- State-by-State Data on the Wage Gap
- How the Paycheck Fairness Act Will Strengthen the Equal Pay Act
- Background Information on the Lilly Ledbetter Fair Pay Act
- Congress Must Act to Close the Wage Gap for Women
(Photo credit: kevindooley)
Share this Post
Related Posts
-
Women & The Military
-
Friday Femme Fatale: Jane Fonda, Maria Shriver & Cougars
-
Will You Have To Ask Your Employer For The "Abortion Rider"?
Comments (32)
Comments on Change.org are meant for further exploration and evaluation of the ideas covered in the posts. To that end, we welcome constructive comments. However, we reserve the right to delete comments that are offensive, abusive, or off-topic; that contain ad hominem attacks; or that are designed to subvert or hijack comment threads rather than contribute to them. Repeat offenders may be permanently removed from the site at our discretion.
Author
-
Jen Nedeau is a social media consultant, progressive activist, feminist speaker and writer. She currently lives in New York City, where she works full-time as the Director of Digital Strategy at Air America Media. In August 2008, Nedeau was selected to be the Editor of the WomensRights.Change.Org where she facilitates daily discussion about the feminist movement. Additionally, Nedeau volunteers as the Chief Technology Officer for New Leaders Council, a non-profit that offers exclusive training for young leaders. You can follow her on Twitter @HumanFolly or learn more here: www.jennedeau.com.
Facebook
Twitter
Digg
StumbleUpon
Delicious
Email


















It always amazes me how far we still need to go to truely make this an equal society.
Posted by withrow newell on 04/28/2009 @ 07:49AM PT
You must be signed in to report content.
I hadn't seen those statistics for women of color... African-American women earning $.69 and Latinas earning .$59 for every dollar paid to men? As if $.78 wasn't bad enough! It's obvious that we must continue to fight for women's rights. Sure, we've come a long way in this country, but we still have a long way to go.
Posted by Julie Neumann on 04/28/2009 @ 08:41AM PT
You must be signed in to report content.
Great post, Jen. The statistics for women of color are really interesting. Is there information on how much these have -- or haven't -- improved over the last 45 years.
Good idea including the Tweeting points. By the way, the idea of Tweeting points came up in Sunday night's #fem2 Twittercasts. Hashtags for the #diversitywin!
My perspectives in #fairpay and Women don’t ask.
jon
Posted by Jon Pincus on 04/28/2009 @ 09:58AM PT
You must be signed in to report content.
i just wonder how much your statistics are skewed due to women taking extended 1+ years maternity leave. In my opinion if you make the personal choice to leave work for an extended period of time you are also making the choice to apss up on opportunity. I would like to see statistics that take this factor into account. I do agree that there is an imbalance, however it may be much less than being represented.
Lastly, when things are finally equal who will come forward to pronounce that? My fear is the road to equality is coming to an end but there are many who are still driving at full speed. Who's going to protect the men if/when it goes the other direction? Already we are seing workplace demographics shift dramatically. Our laws should be blind to all reference of gender, color, race, religion, and or any other way we divide and segregate ourselves.
Posted by X otix on 04/28/2009 @ 10:39AM PT
You must be signed in to report content.
The real question is why most men DON'T take paternity leaves. We live in a culture that, even now, sees childcare as "women's work" and looks askance at men who try to be more actively involved in their children's lives, because God forbid anything should interfere with their career success.
"My fear is that the road to equality is coming to an end...Who's going to protect the men if/when it goes the other direction?". First, women own 1% of property worldwide, and are still denied the right to vote, divorce an abusive husband, or obtain contraceptives in many countries. The road to equality is far from over. Second, men have been oppressing women for centuries using discriminatory laws, pseudoscientific theories, and organized religion. There will be the same institutionalized sexism against men when hell freezes over. Men don't need protection against gender discrimination; they have been looking out for their own interests all too well throughout history, often at the expense of women's rights, for that to happen. So why are you men whining about reverse discrimination that has not happened yet (and most likely never will happen) when you are still the gender that dominates society?
Posted by Amanda Woods on 05/03/2009 @ 10:32PM PT
You must be signed in to report content.
"In fact, authoritative studies show that even when all relevant career and family attributes are taken into account, there is still a significant, unexplained gap in men's and women's earnings. Thus, even when women make the same career choices as men and work the same hours, they still earn less."
ok but does the study you are citing takw these clearly known factors into account? And based on those studies what are the real numbers? See how things can be misrepresented.
Posted by X otix on 04/28/2009 @ 10:45AM PT
You must be signed in to report content.
Why are the women the only ones taking leave for maternity? You're begging a deeper question to be answered.
Additionally, maternity leave *should* only effect a female's pay scale if she works an hourly wage versus a salaried position. Equal for equal work is the premise here. Stop making excuses for discrimination.
Posted by Jen Nedeau on 04/28/2009 @ 08:09PM PT
You must be signed in to report content.
Yes men take maternity leave sometimes, however you and I both know that the majoprity of maternity leave is taken by women. I would say somewhere above 90% but I don't have that statistic.
my point here is that whether you are hourly paid or salaried doesnt matter at all.
The more time you take off of work the less relevant you become to the work that needs to be performed. So you think you should continue to get promotiions while on leave from work for a personal choice?
If I have an employee (A) that has been handling my business for me for the last year while employee (B) was on maternity leave. I'm going to give promotion prioriiity to the person who understands what is currently going on in my business day to day. I will choose to reward the person who stayed with the team, Not somone who has lived thier professional life vicariously thorugh workplace friends while on maternity leave for a year. It is not in the best interest of business to promote someone who has been out of the loop over someone who has not.
BUT, you have predictiblly not answered my direct question. You stated that some studies toook into account the life choices. By the phrase some studies you imply that this one does not. So what are teh numbers of the ones that do take that into account and why don't you feel like those studies are relevant.. or are you just looking for the strongest numbers without regard to the facts?
Posted by X otix on 04/29/2009 @ 08:33AM PT
You must be signed in to report content.
Great point X otix. I just posted a comment to similar effect. Jen, it's not about making excuses for discrimination; it's about integrity and not exaggerating the magnitude of discrimination. There is no call for exaggeration. It only serves to undermine your credibility.
Posted by Drew Frank on 05/02/2009 @ 10:20AM PT
You must be signed in to report content.
X otix - what facts are you pitting against the ones I clearly provided in the post? Read through all the links and the research for yourself. Provide counter facts, not counter opinions. You're using anecdotal evidence to undermine the heavily researched information I have provided to you. Do some reading on present and historical data to see how the timeline has evolved. How about starting with the 500 pages of the Feminist Mystique to get a good baseline for what it was actually like to be a woman in 1959? Then compare those findings with what has been presented here today.
Until you've done the same amount of reading and research that I have done, I will have a hard time taking your anti-equality propaganda seriously.
Posted by Jen Nedeau on 05/02/2009 @ 10:49AM PT
You must be signed in to report content.
It's ironic that you mention Wyoming as a counter-example; Wyoming was the first state to give women the vote, and the first state to have a female governor, historically a leader among the states in women's rights. I wonder where in history they dropped the ball?
Posted by Michelle Bak on 04/28/2009 @ 06:06PM PT
You must be signed in to report content.
Somewhere between 1963 and 2009, I imagine is where the ball got lost...
Posted by Jen Nedeau on 04/28/2009 @ 08:09PM PT
You must be signed in to report content.
Great post. Thanks for all of the information.
Posted by R. U. on 04/28/2009 @ 06:42PM PT
You must be signed in to report content.
women are paid only 78¢ on average for every dollar paid to men AND"African-American women earn 69 cents and Latinas earn 59 cents for every dollar paid to men."
This strikes a cord with me, this is unacceptable.
Posted by Jacqueline Morfin on 04/29/2009 @ 10:21PM PT
You must be signed in to report content.
I wonder how long will fight for women's right has to go on before women get an equal pay. This is absolutely unacceptable in an age of such progressive advancement.
Natural Cosmetics
Posted by Natural Cosmetics on 04/30/2009 @ 06:19AM PT
You must be signed in to report content.
I wonder if anyone has done a study on why some women are recieving less pay than men. Is that information available as well?
Posted by H L on 05/01/2009 @ 04:50PM PT
You must be signed in to report content.
I couldn't find how those percentages got calculated but there are a few reasons why women get paid less.
1) Women often work only half-time to stay home longer with their childeren. Working less means getting paid less every month.
2) Women often study other things in college that have less pay attached to them.
3) Women when they have childeren also lose out of work experience so that they have a harder time to get a job later.
If a women has the same experience, skills, works the same hours and still gets paid less than I can understand why there is a problem but without providing real data and not explaining what the Paycheck Fairness Act does (what tools are provided with it?!?), I don't know if I support this. Why is it so hard to give a few facts and providing information about where the data came from?
Posted by M G on 05/03/2009 @ 11:01AM PT
You must be signed in to report content.
I think that the comparison between DC and Wyoming makes another point.
On average, the *really* dangerous work (which pays higher) is done by men.
In DC, where there's paper-pushers galore, the equity is far closer, and reflects the hierarchy issue (glass ceiling) rather than inequity of pay per unit worker.
In Wyoming, where there are many dangerous jobs to do, men make out better.
There's a lot of high-paying work that is available to women, which they won't do on average.
So, on average, they'll get paid less. But they'll live.
If you note, there are also studies that point to the fact that more men than women work on commission (which is fiscally dangerous).
The point should be that all members of any single profession average out, not both genders.
Compare apples to apples and the numbers look pretty normal now, IMHO.
Posted by Richard Haley on 05/01/2009 @ 07:02PM PT
You must be signed in to report content.
Good points Richard. The other thing I think about is why this portrayed as a problem. People should be free to choose whatever work they want, whether or not it pays as well as other work. Many people I know, male and female, forego higher pay for a more personally rewarding lifestyle. The focus on money seems a bit passé these days.
Posted by H L on 05/02/2009 @ 09:30AM PT
You must be signed in to report content.
I'm all for equal pay, but this article constitutes a gross misrepresentation of the facts. Where to begin?
"women are paid only 78¢ on average for every dollar paid to men."
Well, that's very interesting. Could it be that women make different life choices that explain some of that pay gap? Oh, I see you've taken that into account:
"...authoritative studies show that even when all relevant career and family attributes are taken into account, there is still a significant, unexplained gap in men's and women's earnings."
This is true; it's on the order of 5% (see http://www.aauw.org/research/behindPayGap.cfm). I'm not saying that a 5% gap is insignificant. It's not. It is, however, not even in the same ballpark as the figures starting at 22% cited in this article. You can't ignore confounding factors except when confirming that an effect is significant...that's just bad statistics.
"Hmm - so in 45 years, women's wages compared to men's have only increased by 19 cents?"
That sure sounds paltry...you can't even buy a gumball for 19 cents. Except, oh! You meant 19 cents PER DOLLAR! Put another way: if average pay for men increased X% over those years, average pay for women increased (X+32)%. Hm. Put yet another way: over those 45 years, the pay gap, in terms of percent, has nearly halved. Maybe those 19 cents aren't so paltry after all. Finally, none of these numbers take into account any of the many factors other than gender that influence pay. Who knows what story the real numbers might tell.
"African-American women earn 69 cents and Latinas earn 59 cents for every dollar paid to men."
Wait...for every dollar paid to African-American and Latino men, respectively? Or are they being compared to _all_ men, including white men who are, on average, more educated? The way this article has been going, I'm tempted to believe the latter.
I find it hard to believe that all of this is accidental. It's common knowledge that factors such as education and parenthood influence earning potential; to present a bunch of numbers that ignore this is negligent at best and manipulative at worst. Next time, let the facts speak for themselves.
Posted by Drew Frank on 05/02/2009 @ 10:14AM PT
You must be signed in to report content.
This whole subject has been driven by decades by the kind of misinformation and indeological pandering exemplified by statements like, "In case you didn't already realize, in the United States, women are paid only 78¢ on average for every dollar paid to men."
The innuendo qualifies as a falsehood, whether deliberate or not. Every pundit and blogger who wants to be taken seriously on this issue has to have some background in statistics and has to have actually read the technical studies on the subject. Jen clearly does not qualify, and so is just another contributor to mass misinformation.
For the U.S., all studies that have taken into account the nature of the work, educational level, work experience, time on the job, etc. have not found pay discrepancies of more than a few percent between the sexes or between the races.
And where small discrepancies are found, while sexism or racism MIGHT be an explanation, it is also an equally good hypothesis that the discrepancies only reflect the influence of some variable other than sex or race that was not considered in an analysis.
But it admittedly is much more fun to simply inflame with misinformation than to inform with careful analysis..... And much easier, too.
Posted by Stuart Hurlbert on 05/02/2009 @ 10:31AM PT
You must be signed in to report content.
This thread is a great example of dynamics that crop up in any online conversation of this issue: guys displaying their lack of understanding of the issue and respect for women diverting a call to action or problem-solving question into an uninformed debate about sources and/or the relevant contributions of different factors all filtered through sexist attitudes.
It seems to me pretty unarguable that gender, race, and intersectional wage differences are a complex problem and need to be addressed on a bunch of levels -- including the Paycheck Fairness act.
So I'd like to ask the guys in this thread a couple of questions:
1) do you see wage disparities are a problem?
2) if so, what are you doing about it?
3) do you support the Paycheck Fairness Act?
4) if so, how are you helping lobby for it?
Thanks,
jon
Posted by Jon Pincus on 05/02/2009 @ 10:40AM PT
You must be signed in to report content.
First, I'd say you are being a bit sexist in attacking only "guys displaying lack of understanding." What about Jen's?
Second, no one, guy or gal, who puts out such serious misinformation merits "respect."
Third, since when does correcting misinformation qualify one as having a "sexist" attitude.
As to your questions:
1. No, not unless they reflect and are the result of unjust discrimination. An example, of just discrimination is when someone with 10 years work experience earns, on average, more than someone with 2 years' experience.
2. I am doing nothing, as in my workplaces, institutions, city, professional organizations, etc. I know of no evidence that systematic unjust discrimination is going on.
There is a wage disparity between Baptists and Episcopalians. What are you doing about it?
3) Not if it reflects the kind of misinformation and thinking represented by Jen's essay.
4) n/a
Posted by Stuart Hurlbert on 05/02/2009 @ 11:21AM PT
You must be signed in to report content.
The comments by Stuart and others touch on some significant factors in this complex issue. There are many reasons for salary inequities between workers, male or female. In the professional area, a major factor is the previous salary history. Women may not only take maternity leave (more than men do), but may stay out of the work force until their kids are in high school. When they come back, they are unknown quantities and their salaries are less than others, tied to the low salaries in their past. Some, not all, turn out to be high achievers. I had such a case and I gave the woman the highest raises I could out of the regular raise budget. Who got the lowest raises to enable me to do that? The men over 55, who I knew would not leave. Unfortunately, the company did not have a policy for correction of salary inequities outside of the regular raise budget. The same thing occurred earlier with a man who had been a high-school teacher. His salary there was low, so he was offered a salary only a little higher. He turned out to be a high performer with a lower salary than others doing similar work, but there was no way of knowing that when he was hired. This situation can affect men as well as women, but these circumstances are more likely to happen with women.
Posted by Hubert Flomenhoft on 05/02/2009 @ 11:29AM PT
You must be signed in to report content.
Personally, I oppose both the Lily Ledbetter Act and the Paycheck Fairness Act.
Both of these are further massive government intrusions into private life. Neither serves any useful purpose other than putting a greater stranglehold on economic decisions that ought be left to private industry and individuals.
The Wage Gap is one of the most detrimental myths of modern feminism. I encourage others here to actually READ the other side of this debate and understand it.
Too often, people get behind legislation based upon the GOOD INTENTIONS of the people sponsoring the bill. I have no doubt that the intentions of the authors of this legislation are noble...what I question is whether their methods actually create a result of more fairness. I don't think they do. I think their primary creation will be frivilous lawsuits and unemployment.
We all know where the road that is paved with good intentions leads, yet many of us seem ready to step on the gas going down that road.
The Lily Ledbetter Act is a great example of good intentions gone wrong. The intention is "women should be paid fairly." That's a good intention, without a doubt. The problem is that the way the Lily Ledbetter Act attempts to solve the problem is by removing all limitations on fair pay lawsuits. Now...name one other situation regarding employment where there is NO statue of limitations. (silence) You're not answering, because there is no answer. There are statues of limitations on all of it. Except equal pay. Why should women have the right to sue an employer that underpaid them 30 years ago, but nobody else be permitted to sue for other reasons? That's not "fairness." That's "special privileges for a protected class."
In this case, the protected class is women. I am presumably supposed to applaud all such cases of special legal privileges when the protected class is women....and supposed to boo and hiss in all such cases of special legal privileges for men. I don't buy it. BOTH of those situations are unfair, no matter the sex of the person receiving the special privilege.
Less freedom is NOT a cure for less fairness. Ever.
If you're interested in knowing the truth about pay gaps, read on:
http://glennsacks.com/blog/?p=621
http://www.glennsacks.com/blog/?p=989
http://abcnews.go.com/2020/GiveMeABreak/story?id=797045&page=1
Posted by Evan Sarver on 05/02/2009 @ 12:57PM PT
You must be signed in to report content.
Even either you are not a lawyer or you are completely disengenous. Lilly Ledbetter does not remove the statuted of limitations. It removes the arguement that the statutory period has passed for an onging enfraction. If you are continuing to violate the statutes that effected by Ledbetter you can't argue that because you got away with it all this time you not in violation. If you violated and then stopped the statute of limitations still applies.
Posted by Daniel Sweeney on 05/02/2009 @ 01:06PM PT
You must be signed in to report content.
First, some women are just finding out now that they were discriminated against in the past, due to nondisclosure policies about employees' salaries. Obviously someone who knew they were being discriminated against but chose to let it go shouldn't be able to suddenly change their mind and sue 30 years too late. But keeping the status quo just gives employers incentives to hide their discrimination of women until the statute of limitations runs out. Now if you were to suggest a policy that imposes a statute of limitations based on when the victim found out about the pay discrepancy, that would actually be a sensible policy, but try getting it past Washington.
Second, "special privileges for a protected class". What about the special privileges you enjoy every day just because you're a man, such as the privilege of having your intelligence valued at what it is worth, without being deemed "too emotional" for a leadership position solely on the basis of gender? "I am supposed to boo and hiss in all such cases of special legal privileges for men". Well, yes. You see, those of us who live in the 21st century agree that basic rights that were once "special legal privileges for men", such as the right to vote, ought to be extended to women as well. Nobody is suggesting that women should have rights that men don't, just that women should have the same rights that men take for granted.
Posted by Amanda Woods on 05/03/2009 @ 11:35PM PT
You must be signed in to report content.
I have studied this some, well a three credit course a year ago at Penn State so not nothing but it was only part of my major.
The 78% number is a lousy number. It is used all the time but it doesn't tell any real truth. It is calculated by taking all the money earned as wages by women, so most of Oprah's money isn't counted, and dividing it by the number of women in the workforce; then taking all the money earned as wages by men, so all the money paid to major sports figures is counted, and dividing it by the number of men in the workforce. The women's figure is then divided by the men's figure and currently you get 78%.
It does not reflect at all any circumstance where a woman is actually getting paid less money to do the exact same work as a man. That is already illegal and only a fool would think they could get away with it (and why would they want to?).
The racial numbers are actually racial comparisons not race to gender. By that I mean that black women make $.69 compared to an average Caucasian man's $1. Black men make $.80 compared to ever Caucasian man's $1. (this is all from memory but I think it is about right) Latino women earn the lowest which seems to be cultural in the Latino community rather than in practices of employers. These numbers have been getting closer to each other, but only because Caucasian men have been earning less per capita than previous years not because women and minorities have been earning more.
I just read the act and it won't do what most of the supporters claim it will do. It does fix some of the language of the old acts but it doesn't really change much of anything. it adds a little provision for some negotiation training for women and girls that might be a nice little project for some non-profits around the country but that really isn't the problem.
Discrimination has moved into harder to legislate areas. For instance in the supermarket industry the fastest way to store manager is through the produce department. Most produce department workers are boys because the crates are heavy, most produce department assistant managers are young men because they promoted one of the boys, most produce mangers are men because the assistant manager gets the promotion when the old produce manger gets the store managers job. What isn't clear is why produce makes a person more qualified to be manger than grocery, or deli, or bakery where women are more often the mangers.
The act does make addressing an example like the one for the workers that clean the Capital Building in D.C. easier and for that reason I do support the bill. (again from memory so some of the details may be off). Women that work on these crews were getting about $8 an hour while men were getting $11. The men were given a different job classification even though the only thing they did differently was run the floor buffer, which was not a job done every night. It will make correcting this sort of thing easier and since it is a government job most likely all the employees will getting $11, but in the private sector the correction would most likely be to drop the men to $8.
What this bill doesnt' address is the "choices" issue which is dismissed as being dismissive. The issue of women's choices is at the heart of the disparity in pay. Until we value as a society the choice of child birth and child rearing we have an obligation to legislate protections for the women that choose not to see the species end. We must legislate child care, leave, paid sick days, seniority protection and other means of supporting the choice of family.
Posted by Daniel Sweeney on 05/02/2009 @ 01:00PM PT
You must be signed in to report content.
The issue of women's choices is at the heart of the disparity in pay. Until we value as a society the choice of child birth and child rearing we have an obligation to legislate protections for the women that choose not to see the species end. We must legislate child care, leave, paid sick days, seniority protection and other means of supporting the choice of family. </snip
Thank you Daniel. I agree with this sentiment completely.
I think that a policy of attacking contributing factors to the pay dicrepancy (flexible hours, job sharing, paid maternity leave, paid sick leave etc) we would have a better chance of healing the gap than just assuming that it's due to flagrant sexism.
If there were more options for sharing the family care responsabilities, we would see more families taking equal responsability for work and home.
Right now, I feel that we have acheived equality in the workplace so long as we don't have dependents. Unfortunately, the workplace is largely still organized in a way that does not accomodate the realities of having children or elders in your care. I think it's a fair statment that women are still doing more to adjust their careers to accomodate these responsabilites than men. And let's be honest, it is more acceptible for women to ask for time to handle these responsabilites than men. How many dads feel comfortable asking for paternity leave if their company doesn't already have a program? Is it culturally more acceptable for women to stay home with a sick child than a dad?
Posted by Amber Clark on 05/02/2009 @ 11:09PM PT
You must be signed in to report content.
Thanks Amber. I think you're right on the mark.
I would add, there is a fundamental problem with discussing equality in a forum called "Women's Rights". If we're really interested in equality - why not have a forum called "Equality". Discussing equality in a forum whose name only represents a subset of the people interested is at best clearly unequal by design and at worst alienating and confrontational to all other interested parties.
Being interested in equality in a forum dedicated to equality could mean encouraging and educating all people to consider their all of their options before deciding to have children for example, or when deciding how much danger they are willing to accept in their work to receive higher pay, or how much personal time they are willing to trade for higher pay, or how much they are willing to trade time with their kids for money. Notice it's possible to discuss these issues in terms of what's possible for all people without resorting to discrimination.
Personal choices are the factors that determine pay rate. Not chromosomes.
Posted by H L on 05/03/2009 @ 10:02AM PT
You must be signed in to report content.
Don't forget men have rights too. Why don't women pay men child support? why don't men get to see kids after a divorce?Or barely ever...From lots of stories I hear and from what I've seen with friends of mine, it seems the women don't get paid directly in salaries quite as much because they get their salary and 50-75% of their ex-husband's salary, which is usually high enough that they don't even need their job in the first place. And if it isn't quite high enough to live on by themselves well they have their husband thrown in jail for not supporting them better even though he can't see the kids and can hardly support himself with the few pennies he has left after losing all the money he has to give her. No wonder there are so many foreclosures.
Posted by Jacob Litoff on 05/03/2009 @ 06:24PM PT
You must be signed in to report content.
Why don't divorced men see their kids more often? Probably because they don't really care about their children or they would have made more of an effort to maintain their marriage. Men have got to start pulling their weight in marriage and other relationships. I'm not saying all men are like this; my father cares very much about my brother and me and has never been divorced. However,from what I've seen, divorced men tend to be selfish losers who couldn't be bothered with caring for their wives or children. Nobody is forcing men to divorce their wives; if a man wants to desert his wife, that's his choice, but if you ask me he deserves to pay every penny of alimony and child support to the woman who is singlehandedly raising his children and shamed by the stigma of being a single mother.
Posted by Amanda Woods on 05/03/2009 @ 11:58PM PT
You must be signed in to report content.